Americans are all about mission, vision, and goal setting when it comes to career, travel, hobbies and other life plans. So why don’t we put the same amount of effort into … [Read more...]
Partner Search
How do I find a partner for life? Where can I meet them? What should I pay attention
to when looking for the right person? Why am I still single? How do I know who
is the right one? What compromises can I make when choosing a partner?
How important is it to share beliefs, values, and attitudes with my partner?
These and many other questions are crucial for people who are seeking a spouse.
10 Practical Steps for Finding a Partner – Part II
In the last post we presented the first 4 tips or steps for finding a partner, inspired by the contribution of Dr. Maren R. Stephan in the book “Instructions for Love: 100 … [Read more...]
7 Fundamental Rules for a Successful Partner Search
In today’s society, more and more people are living the single life. While marriage and family are still desired (and many singles are still seeking partners), in a lot of … [Read more...]
Looking for your Dream Man or Woman? Follow these 4 Criteria to Avoid a Nightmare
At some point, everyone has pondered what their dream woman or dream man would be like. However, in order to ensure that that dream does not turn into a nightmare, you have to … [Read more...]
I didn’t fall in love with my wife
From Matt Walsh: "No wonder we're so bad at marriage: we don't understand love!" It's no surprise that we are so bad at marriage in this culture. We're bad at it because … [Read more...]
Before you bind yourself forever, check your relationship motives
If you don't want to stand in the way of a successful relationship (or be fooled into thinking it's successful), you should be aware of any hidden relationship motives that … [Read more...]
When the Timing is Right, Priorities Change
Walter was known for constantly flirting with the prettiest girls. One relationship here, another there. No party left unattended and never a hint of seriousness with his … [Read more...]
The Myth of the Soul Mate
The myth of the “one right person” goes back to the philosopher Plato. In his “Symposium” he has the poet Aristophanes explain the origin of the genders: “Spherical people … [Read more...]
Does your spouse have to be an Academic?
We often hear from educated people that they will only date other people with academic degrees. But not having an advanced degree doesn't mean that someone isn't amazing. And … [Read more...]
Are physical appearance and good looks non-negotiables in your partner search?
Es gibt da ein bauernschlaues Sprichwort, das lautet: „Schönheit vergeht, Hektar besteht.“ Schreiben wir es für uns um: „Schönheit vergeht, Charakter besteht.“ Oder: … [Read more...]