10 Ways To Tell If It's All About Sex

Finally, someone who is perfect for you. Who cares about you and is happy to spend time with you. Finally, a strong shoulder to lean on. But something is wrong. Strange behaviors makes you doubt him. If he cared about you, would he have forgotten the things that are important to you? Something is wrong. Maybe he only cares about sex?

These 10 signs will tell you if he only cares about sex:

He’s not willing to commit to a relationship with you.
He compliments you too much.
He urges you to drink a lot of alcohol.
He usually only contacts you when he is bored and it’s often late at night.
He brings every conversation to a sexual level: No matter how many times you try to start a deep conversation, or just talk about each other, he will react selfishly. He is always sarcastic- he hasn’t grown up yet- everything is just immature fun for him.
“Talking” isn’t really “his thing”: When there is a deep conversation regarding the relationship, he immediately reminds you that he doesn’t like to talk about these things. He’ll want to push you to have sex, and if you say no and resist and want to keep talking, he’ll be sulky and frustrated, or walk away and pursue other plans.
His “gifts” are often sexually suggestive: When he says “I got something for you,” don’t expect flowers or a bracelet. If this man just wants to sleep with you, chances are his “gift” is more for him than for you. If he only wants sex, he will only think of himself.
Your house is just a big bedroom for him, and his house has more rules than a maximum-security prison: He comes into your house through the back entrance and makes himself comfortable, no matter where, and gets “straight to the point”, even though you might have made him a meal or wanted to show him something. Your house is just a place for him to have sex because he doesn’t care about your house no matter how nice and clean you make it. In his house you get the suspicion that you shouldn’t make yourself comfortable. He has strict but unwritten rules that are clear from the start. There is no overnight stay, and you are not allowed to leave anything there. Wanting to “feel at home” isn’t possible at his house. Spending time together is quickly ended under the pretense of him “having something to do,” even though “he’s sorry.”
He never wants to go out with your friends – he prefers to meet you at home: He wants to spend time with you on the couch in front of the TV. He’ll come up with all sorts of excuses for not taking you out to dinner, mostly under the pretense of “wanting to be alone” with you. He needs you for sex – otherwise he would like to continue his bachelor lifestyle. The same applies to friends as to family. Again, he can pretend he doesn’t want to be involved because he “needs you,” but in reality, he doesn’t want to make new friends. He also doesn’t want to introduce his friends to you because he doesn’t want to give you that much importance. He doesn’t want to meet your friends either, because knows they would see through him. Try to get your friends involved as early as possible because they are the ones who will tell you whether or not he’s right for you.
He doesn’t want to meet your family: Even if your family lives next door or even on another continent, his unwillingness to meet them is the same. He doesn’t want to impress your mother at all, or show your father what a great man you deserve, no, he just wants to “show up” with you and then disappear again. All he cares about is sex. He doesn’t want to meet your parents like you do. Some guys stay by your side for months just to use you with no intention of going any further in the relationship. After a few months, when he’s always “too busy” to show up at the family dinner, you’ll know something is fishy.